{"id":2112,"date":"2013-09-20T10:59:01","date_gmt":"2013-09-20T02:59:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shirleytaylor.com\/blog\/?p=2112"},"modified":"2013-09-20T11:23:02","modified_gmt":"2013-09-20T03:23:02","slug":"show-empathy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shirleytaylor.com\/blog\/show-empathy\/","title":{"rendered":"Show Empathy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>\n <o:OfficeDocumentSettings>\n  <o:AllowPNG\/>\n <\/o:OfficeDocumentSettings>\n<\/xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>\n <w:WordDocument>\n  <w:View>Normal<\/w:View>\n  <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom>\n  <w:TrackMoves\/>\n  <w:TrackFormatting\/>\n  <w:PunctuationKerning\/>\n  <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas\/>\n  <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false<\/w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>\n  <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false<\/w:IgnoreMixedContent>\n  <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false<\/w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>\n  <w:DoNotPromoteQF\/>\n  <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US<\/w:LidThemeOther>\n  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to find out how others really feel. <em>To show empathy is to identify with another person&rsquo;s feelings.<\/em> It is to emotionally put yourself in the place of another. <o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p>Most experts in communication, management and self-development mention the importance of empathy &#8211; really understanding the other person&#39;s position and feelings. Being able to &#39;step back&#39;, and achieve a detachment from our own emotions is essential for effective, constructive relationships.<\/p>\n<p><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p>Many people have difficulty with empathy and with expressing real feelings. I think this is a shame. Just imagine the difference you could make if you truly get to know people and understand how they feel. It could really set you apart from the rest, and you&rsquo;d start giving great value that many others don&rsquo;t give.<o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p><strong>Get in touch with your feelings today, and use empathy. It really helps.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:11.0pt;font-family:Arial\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The need to be understood is one of the highest human needs, but many people don&rsquo;t care or just don&rsquo;t make an effort to find out how others really feel. 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