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Dear Reader,
First of all, a big THANK YOU to the very many of
you who wrote to me to express sympathy at the
loss of my dear Mum. Mum died on 22 July but
she is forever in my heart and in my thoughts. Thank
you to everyone who wrote to me at what has been
a very sad time for me.
It's great to be back in Singapore now, and I am
enjoying spending some quality time with my lovely
cat Cookie :-) I'm busy too with lots of
workshops coming up between now and Christmas,
so I'm looking forward to meeting up with some old
friends and making lots of new ones. If you are
interested in attending a public workshop, you'll find
all the
dates and details here. You can also take
a look at some photos from previous workshops on
my Photo Gallery.
Remember I also enjoy conducting in-house
workshops specially for companies. So scroll down for
further details on that on the right-hand side, or
please contact me at
shirley@shirleytaylor.com.
Also in September, I'm looking forward to coming up
to Kuala Lumpur to do a workshop with Quest
Learning. It's another popular
Malaysian Executive Secretaries Seminar,
co-presented by my good friend
KC See. Click on the links for further details.
So September looks like being another busy month. I
hope yours is good, and I'll see you again in August
with another Shirley Says.
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Yes, can you believe it? Isn't it great?! On Tuesday
30 August I started a regular slot on the Morning
Glory show on WKRZ 91.3 with Suzanne Walker.
Suzanne asked me to come on every Tuesday
morning to talk about different aspects of
Communication Skills. The interview will be
broadcast every Tuesday 9-10am, and it will also be
repeated on Fridays 10-11am and Sundays 2-3pm.
So please check it out and let me have your
feedback on what you want to hear on the show.
In our first interview Suzanne and I discussed the
importance of communication in general.
Communication is the heart of every organisation.
Everything you do in the workplace results from
communication. Therefore good reading, writing,
speaking and listening skills are essential if tasks are
going to be completed and goals achieved.
As you develop your career you will find various
reasons why successful communication skills are
important to you, for example:
- To secure an interview. You will need
good communication skills to make sure your
application letter is read and acted upon.
- To get the job. You will need to
communicate well during your interview if you are to
sell yourself and get the job you want.
- To do your job well. You will need to
request information, discuss problems, give
instructions, work in teams, interact with colleagues
and clients. If you are to achieve co-operation and
effective teamwork, good human relations skills are
essential. Also, as the workplace is also becoming
more global, there are many factors to consider if
you are to communicate well in such a diverse
environment.
- To advance in your career. Employers
want staff who can think for themselves, use
initiative and solve problems, staff who are
interested in the long-term success of the company.
If you are to be seen as a valued member of the
organisation, it is important not just to be able to do
your job well, but also to communicate your thoughts
on how the processes and products or services can
be improved.
In my first radio interview with Suzanne, we also
talked about Intercultural Sensitivies, as well as the
benefits you and your company can gain from
effective communication. Here are those benefits
again:
Stronger decision-making and
problem-solving
Upturn in productivity
Convincing and compelling corporate
materials
Clearer, more streamlined workflow
Enhanced professional image
Sound business relationships
Successful response ensured
REMEMBER: Today's workplace is constantly
changing, so learning more about effective
communication helps us all adapt to our changing
environments.
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Are you ever stuck for words at meetings and
job interviews? In this article Alison Lester, an
executive coach who's made a living out of
improvising, tells you how to get on top of it. Alison
is a good friend of mine, an excellent trainer and a
very funny lady too.
Learn more about how Alison can help you and
your company.
Improvisation - doing or making something we have
not prepared for owing to an unexpected situation -
is a daily necessity. We handle surprises all the time -
everything from a sudden storm to a death in the
famly. Life is not predictable. You'd think you'd be
good at it. And yet you are set in your ways.
That's why job interviews cause anxiety.
Unanticipated responsibilities shock you. But in such
a competitive world, you really can't afford to limit
your chance of success by remaining rigid and
rejecting change.
Reduce fear
Of course there may be rejection, even failure.
Nothing will take away the possibility of
disappointment, but there are ways to reduce the
fear. There are ways to improve your flexibility, your
imagination and your confidence, so that you worry
less about life's surprises and compexities. You would
come to look forward to them, as you have so much
fun tackling them.
Have you ever watched the television show 'Whose
Line Is It Anyway?' Practising the mental exercises
that comic improvisers use to improve their skill can
take you a long way toward employing more of your
brain than usual, and in such an enjoyable way.
Take a look at a few situations where trusting your
well-exercised brain can turn a difficult moment into
a wonderful one. I've added a bit of humour to
sweeten the effort, but the principle is the same.
open yourself up to more of what is inside you and
watch your effectiveness, and your enjoyment of
yourself and your situation, increase.
If you want to learn more about how you can
reduce fear and learn to improvise,
read the rest of this article
from Alison Lester.
Alison has a passion for language and
communication. She enjoys the challenge
of developing communication skills and creativity
training for companies as diverse as CNBC Asia,
McDonald's, IDC, DDB, IKEA, O2 and many more.
She provides a range of services from one-on-one
communication and presentation consulting for
managers to team building, presentation, and
confidence workshops for groups. Check out her
website at
www.ajlestercommunication.com
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DJ Suzanne Walker was telling me recently that she
loves the section of my website featuring the
A-Z of Bloopers, Blunders, Common Errors and
Clichés. As I haven't included any in
Shirley Says recently, I'll make up for
that today by including some here.
Herewith and Hereby
These are old-fashioned clichés that we
should not use in the 21st Century. Let's face it, if
it's not herewith, where the heck is it?
However
However - when the meaning
is 'nevertheless' - can be used at the beginning, in
the middle or at the end of a sentence. It's a good
word to help you illustrate a contrast in thought.
Note that commas are usually needed. For example
I rarely work on weekends. However, last
weekend
was an exception.
I rarely work on weekends. Last weekend, however,
was an exception.
I rarely work on weekends. Last weekend was an
exception, however.
When you use however to mean 'in whatever
way' or 'to whatever extent', note that it is one
word, not two:
However you advise her, she will do exactly as
she pleases.
In order to
This is an old-fashioned wordy phrase that can easily
be shortened by removing the first two words. Just
say 'to'.
In the event that
These four words can easily be reduced to one
word - If.
In view of the fact that
Six words that can easily be reduced to one - As,
Since or Because.
-ise or -ize
Many words end in this suffix. Be consistent in your
use. -ise is British English. -ize is American
English.
NB: There are some words that must end in -ise
whichever spelling convention you follow. Here are
just a few:
arise
comprise
compromise
disguise
surprise
supervise
Its/It's
It's is written with an apostrophe only when it
is a contraction for It is. For example:
It's very funny when you see a little puppy
chasing its tail.
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Last but definitely not least, a message for Caroline
and Ron in Sheffield - I just want to tell you that you
are two of the best friends I could have. You were
brilliant during my recent trip home, and I love you
both loads.
Shirley
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Shirley's September News |
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Here I am in August with these lucky participants
who won bingo and lucky draw prizes in my two-day
Power Up Your Business Writing workshop.
Well done to you all!
SHIRLEY'S 2005 SCHEDULE OF
PUBLIC WORKSHOPS
I have several public workshops coming up over the
next few months. To download the pdf flier,
please click on the links. For further details
please call Sam Loo from Learner's Choice on 63762018.
Power Up Your Business Writing
Skills
13-14 September*
19-20 October
6-7 December
* STOP PRESS NEWS: My September business
writing workshop is already FULL HOUSE so
registration for this workshop is now closed! Wow!!
:-) So put your name down SOON for the October
workshop!
Success Skills for Secretaries &
Support Staff
9 November
Energise your E-mail Writing
Skills
21 September
IN-HOUSE TRAINING WITH
SHIRLEY
I'm delighted to have worked with some great
companies doing in-house training in business writing
skills. Just recently I've conducted workshops for
ABN AMRO Bank, Asia Pacific Breweries, Degussa
SEA, Epson Singapore, Golden Village, Prudential
Assurance Co, and many more. This month I'm
looking forward to the beginning of several workshops
for Sumitomo Corporation and Aviva General
Insurance.
If you are interested in improving the e-mail and
business writing skills of your staff - and want to
have some fun in the process - please contact me at
shirley@shirleytaylor.com or give me a call on
64726076. I will be happy to discuss how we can
make my workshop fulfil your individual
requirements.
COMMUNICATION FOR BUSINESS
4th EDITION
I'm so pleased to see my new book Communication for Business 4th
edition in all the major bookstores in
Singapore. I hope you can find it in your bookstores
too, wherever you are in the world. If not, please let
me know and I'll find out where you can buy it.
COMMENTS ON THE 4TH EDITION OF
COMMUNICATION FOR BUSINESS
Here is what some people are saying about the 4th
edition of Communication for Business:
"Shirley's clear writing style and examples of business
documents have made this book popular for almost
15 years. Once again, Shirley has used material that
is topical and timeless, with eye-catching graphics
and up-to-date realistic assignments. Her fourth
edition is sure to be another winner."
Marion Goldacre, Programme Leader, Office
Administration, Lincoln College, UK
"I teach Business English and Communication Skills,
and recommend your books to many of my students.
I also follow up and make sure they have
bought them! Your clear, practical approach and the
straightforward language you use is ideal for my non-
native learners, and the guidance you give in
structure, style and tone of business documents is
excellent."
Martin Jack, Aarhus Business College, Denmark
"Shirley's approach to modern business
communication is clear and simple, which serves well
to reinforce the message. She not only makes her
books user-friendly, but also fun and memorable, just
like her workshops. I highly recommend this book to
anyone who feels their business writing is not as
powerful as it could be."
Angela Keane, Communications and Media Trainer,
Beijing
Check out some more testimonials
for the 4th edition.
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