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Shirley Says E-Newsletter Issue 32
September 2005

Dear Reader,

First of all, a big THANK YOU to the very many of you who wrote to me to express sympathy at the loss of my dear Mum. Mum died on 22 July but she is forever in my heart and in my thoughts. Thank you to everyone who wrote to me at what has been a very sad time for me.

It's great to be back in Singapore now, and I am enjoying spending some quality time with my lovely cat Cookie :-) I'm busy too with lots of workshops coming up between now and Christmas, so I'm looking forward to meeting up with some old friends and making lots of new ones. If you are interested in attending a public workshop, you'll find all the dates and details here. You can also take a look at some photos from previous workshops on my Photo Gallery.

Remember I also enjoy conducting in-house workshops specially for companies. So scroll down for further details on that on the right-hand side, or please contact me at shirley@shirleytaylor.com.

Also in September, I'm looking forward to coming up to Kuala Lumpur to do a workshop with Quest Learning. It's another popular Malaysian Executive Secretaries Seminar, co-presented by my good friend KC See. Click on the links for further details.

So September looks like being another busy month. I hope yours is good, and I'll see you again in August with another Shirley Says.

In this issue
  • Shirley's September News
  • Shirley's on the Radio with Suzanne Walker
  • Quick on your feet
  • A-Z of Bloopers and Blunders
  • And finally ...

  • Shirley's on the Radio with Suzanne Walker

    Yes, can you believe it? Isn't it great?! On Tuesday 30 August I started a regular slot on the Morning Glory show on WKRZ 91.3 with Suzanne Walker. Suzanne asked me to come on every Tuesday morning to talk about different aspects of Communication Skills. The interview will be broadcast every Tuesday 9-10am, and it will also be repeated on Fridays 10-11am and Sundays 2-3pm. So please check it out and let me have your feedback on what you want to hear on the show.

    In our first interview Suzanne and I discussed the importance of communication in general. Communication is the heart of every organisation. Everything you do in the workplace results from communication. Therefore good reading, writing, speaking and listening skills are essential if tasks are going to be completed and goals achieved.

    As you develop your career you will find various reasons why successful communication skills are important to you, for example:

    • To secure an interview. You will need good communication skills to make sure your application letter is read and acted upon.
    • To get the job. You will need to communicate well during your interview if you are to sell yourself and get the job you want.
    • To do your job well. You will need to request information, discuss problems, give instructions, work in teams, interact with colleagues and clients. If you are to achieve co-operation and effective teamwork, good human relations skills are essential. Also, as the workplace is also becoming more global, there are many factors to consider if you are to communicate well in such a diverse environment.
    • To advance in your career. Employers want staff who can think for themselves, use initiative and solve problems, staff who are interested in the long-term success of the company. If you are to be seen as a valued member of the organisation, it is important not just to be able to do your job well, but also to communicate your thoughts on how the processes and products or services can be improved.

    In my first radio interview with Suzanne, we also talked about Intercultural Sensitivies, as well as the benefits you and your company can gain from effective communication. Here are those benefits again:

    Stronger decision-making and problem-solving
    Upturn in productivity
    Convincing and compelling corporate materials
    Clearer, more streamlined workflow
    Enhanced professional image
    Sound business relationships
    Successful response ensured

    REMEMBER: Today's workplace is constantly changing, so learning more about effective communication helps us all adapt to our changing environments.


    Quick on your feet

    Are you ever stuck for words at meetings and job interviews? In this article Alison Lester, an executive coach who's made a living out of improvising, tells you how to get on top of it. Alison is a good friend of mine, an excellent trainer and a very funny lady too. Learn more about how Alison can help you and your company.

    Improvisation - doing or making something we have not prepared for owing to an unexpected situation - is a daily necessity. We handle surprises all the time - everything from a sudden storm to a death in the famly. Life is not predictable. You'd think you'd be good at it. And yet you are set in your ways.

    That's why job interviews cause anxiety. Unanticipated responsibilities shock you. But in such a competitive world, you really can't afford to limit your chance of success by remaining rigid and rejecting change.

    Reduce fear

    Of course there may be rejection, even failure. Nothing will take away the possibility of disappointment, but there are ways to reduce the fear. There are ways to improve your flexibility, your imagination and your confidence, so that you worry less about life's surprises and compexities. You would come to look forward to them, as you have so much fun tackling them.

    Have you ever watched the television show 'Whose Line Is It Anyway?' Practising the mental exercises that comic improvisers use to improve their skill can take you a long way toward employing more of your brain than usual, and in such an enjoyable way.

    Take a look at a few situations where trusting your well-exercised brain can turn a difficult moment into a wonderful one. I've added a bit of humour to sweeten the effort, but the principle is the same. open yourself up to more of what is inside you and watch your effectiveness, and your enjoyment of yourself and your situation, increase.

    If you want to learn more about how you can reduce fear and learn to improvise, read the rest of this article from Alison Lester.

    Alison has a passion for language and communication. She enjoys the challenge of developing communication skills and creativity training for companies as diverse as CNBC Asia, McDonald's, IDC, DDB, IKEA, O2 and many more. She provides a range of services from one-on-one communication and presentation consulting for managers to team building, presentation, and confidence workshops for groups. Check out her website at www.ajlestercommunication.com


    A-Z of Bloopers and Blunders

    DJ Suzanne Walker was telling me recently that she loves the section of my website featuring the A-Z of Bloopers, Blunders, Common Errors and Clichés. As I haven't included any in Shirley Says recently, I'll make up for that today by including some here.

    Herewith and Hereby
    These are old-fashioned clichés that we should not use in the 21st Century. Let's face it, if it's not herewith, where the heck is it?

    However
    However - when the meaning is 'nevertheless' - can be used at the beginning, in the middle or at the end of a sentence. It's a good word to help you illustrate a contrast in thought. Note that commas are usually needed. For example

    I rarely work on weekends. However, last weekend was an exception.
    I rarely work on weekends. Last weekend, however, was an exception.
    I rarely work on weekends. Last weekend was an exception, however.

    When you use however to mean 'in whatever way' or 'to whatever extent', note that it is one word, not two:

    However you advise her, she will do exactly as she pleases.

    In order to
    This is an old-fashioned wordy phrase that can easily be shortened by removing the first two words. Just say 'to'.

    In the event that
    These four words can easily be reduced to one word - If.

    In view of the fact that
    Six words that can easily be reduced to one - As, Since or Because.

    -ise or -ize
    Many words end in this suffix. Be consistent in your use.
    -ise is British English. -ize is American English.

    NB: There are some words that must end in -ise whichever spelling convention you follow. Here are just a few:

    arise
    comprise
    compromise
    disguise
    surprise
    supervise

    Its/It's
    It's is written with an apostrophe only when it is a contraction for It is. For example:
    It's very funny when you see a little puppy chasing its tail.


    And finally ...

    Last but definitely not least, a message for Caroline and Ron in Sheffield - I just want to tell you that you are two of the best friends I could have. You were brilliant during my recent trip home, and I love you both loads.

    Shirley


    Shirley's September News

    Here I am in August with these lucky participants who won bingo and lucky draw prizes in my two-day Power Up Your Business Writing workshop.
    Well done to you all!


    SHIRLEY'S 2005 SCHEDULE
    OF PUBLIC WORKSHOPS

    I have several public workshops coming up over the next few months. To download the pdf flier, please click on the links.
    For further details please call
    Sam Loo from Learner's Choice
    on 63762018.

    Power Up Your Business Writing Skills
    13-14 September*
    19-20 October
    6-7 December

    * STOP PRESS NEWS: My September business writing workshop is already FULL HOUSE so registration for this workshop is now closed! Wow!! :-) So put your name down SOON for the October workshop!

    Success Skills for Secretaries
    & Support Staff

    9 November

    Energise your E-mail Writing Skills
    21 September


    IN-HOUSE TRAINING WITH SHIRLEY

    I'm delighted to have worked with some great companies doing in-house training in business writing skills. Just recently I've conducted workshops for
    ABN AMRO Bank, Asia Pacific Breweries, Degussa SEA, Epson Singapore, Golden Village, Prudential Assurance Co, and many more. This month I'm looking forward to the beginning of several workshops for Sumitomo Corporation and Aviva General Insurance.

    If you are interested in improving the e-mail and business writing skills of your staff - and want to have some fun in the process - please contact me at shirley@shirleytaylor.com or give me a call on 64726076. I will be happy to discuss how we can make my workshop fulfil your individual requirements.


    COMMUNICATION FOR BUSINESS
    4th EDITION

    I'm so pleased to see my new book
    Communication for Business 4th edition
    in all the major bookstores in Singapore. I hope you can find it in your bookstores too, wherever you are in the world. If not, please let me know and I'll find out where you can buy it.

    COMMENTS ON THE 4TH EDITION OF
    COMMUNICATION FOR BUSINESS

    Here is what some people are saying about the 4th edition of Communication for Business:

    "Shirley's clear writing style and examples of business documents have made this book popular for almost 15 years. Once again, Shirley has used material that is topical and timeless, with eye-catching graphics and up-to-date realistic assignments. Her fourth edition is sure to be another winner."

    Marion Goldacre, Programme Leader, Office Administration, Lincoln College, UK

    "I teach Business English and Communication Skills, and recommend your books to many of my students.
    I also follow up and make sure they have bought them! Your clear, practical approach and the straightforward language you use is ideal for my non- native learners, and the guidance you give in structure, style and tone of business documents is excellent."

    Martin Jack, Aarhus Business College, Denmark

    "Shirley's approach to modern business communication is clear and simple, which serves well to reinforce the message. She not only makes her books user-friendly, but also fun and memorable, just like her workshops. I highly recommend this book to anyone who feels their business writing is not as powerful as it could be."

    Angela Keane, Communications and Media Trainer, Beijing

    Check out some more testimonials
    for the 4th edition
    .

    Quick Links...

    A-Z of Bloopers, Blunders, Common Errors and Clichés

    Shirley's workshops and seminars

    Shirley's articles on learning

    An interview with Shirley

    Shirley's books

    Shirley's photo gallery

    The communications guru from down under -
    Ricky Lien



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