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Dear Reader,
My lovely Mum was the best supporter I could ever
have, and I know she would be very proud this
month to know about the publication of my latest
book: Communication for Business 4th edition.
I'm very proud of this new edition too, and you can
read more about this in my first article below.
My good friend Ricky Lien has written the unit on Oral
Presentation Skills for my new book, so I'm pleased
to include a guest article from Ricky in this month's
Shirley Says.
Also this month is news of the Malaysian Executive
Secretaries Seminar coming up in KL in
September.
I'm still in UK as I write this issue of Shirley Says
but I'll be back in action in Singapore soon, and
am looking forward to meeting more new friends at
my public workshops in Singapore in August and
September -
dates and details here. Take
a look at some photos from previous workshops on
my Photo Gallery.
Have a good August, and I'll see you again in
September with another Shirley Says.
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I am pleased to announce the recent publication of
my new book - Communication for Business 4th edition.
If anyone had told me way back in 1991
that my first book would become so successful that
it would be used by many people all over the world,
and that in 2005 I would be celebrating the 4th
edition, I would never have believed it! It's true
though, and I'm very proud and happy about it.
Communication is and always will be the lifeblood of
any organisation, and just like any other endeavour,
the more you put into it, the more you'll get back!
The 4th edition of this popular book should be in your
bookstores now, and of course I shall have it on sale
at all my workshops. By using the tried and tested
techniques, tips and guidelines presented in this
book, I hope you will enjoy learning to communicate
your ideas effectively and professionally, and so
enhance your own career as well as the success of
your organisation.
SPECIAL LAUNCH IN SINGAPORE
My publishers Pearson Education are planning to hold
a special presentation and launch for Communication
for Business 4th edition soon. I'll be mailing you
again within the next few weeks with details. Don't
miss this great opportunity to attend my special
presentation at the launch, and you might even win
copies of the new edition. Look out for more details
in your mailbox SOON.
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| Attention Malaysian Secretaries |
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This is a photo of me with participants at the 2004
Malaysian Executive Secretaries Seminar. And guess
what? Yes, I'm coming to Kuala Lumpur again in
September 2005. I'm looking forward to working with
Quest Learning again with another
Malaysian Executive Secretaries Seminar,
co-presented by my good friend
KC See.
This is the programme that will take you to a higher
level faster. This comprehensive seminar will show
you how to enhance your productivity, be more
successful, and transform your job into a rewarding
and enjoyable one! You will learn how to handle the
demands of your job as a PA or Executive Secretary
with assertiveness, confidence and professionalism.
I'm looking forward to visiting KL again, and shall be
presenting one day on the topic of Enhanced
Communication Skills. KC See will be presenting on
the second day on Self-Mastery and Management
Skils.
This seminar will be held on 28-29 September 2005 at
the Melia Hotel in Kuala Lumpur, so if you are a
secretary in Malaysia, don't miss it. For
registration details please click here.
ATTENTION SECRETARIES IN SINGAPORE
I don't want secretaries in Singapore to feel left out.
Coming up in Singapore in the next few months is my
one-day workshop, Success Skills for Secretaries & Support
Staff - the dates for your diary are 6 September
and 9 November. Check out more details here or for
further details contact Sam Loo from Learner's
Choice on 63762018.
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Here I am with my good friend and great
trainer Ricky Lien recently celebrating the
publication of my new book. I'm very happy to say
that Ricky agreed to write a chapter of my new book
on Oral Communication Skills. In this article here,
Ricky gives some advice about how to make perfect
presentations. If you want to learn more from Ricky,
visit www.mindsetmedia.com.sg and
sign up for his fabulous monthly newsletter.
The usual and easiest advice to give any newcomer
to public speaking or business presentation is to
stand up, speak out, handle the questions asked,
and sit down. That's the easy part. But how do we
handle the nerves and how do we stand and use our
body language? All public speakers or presenters
need to accept nervousness as an occupational
hazard. And how do we use our voice? This article
will address some of those issues.
Nervousness
We can reduce the amount of nervousness by doing
the following drill:
1 Prepare yourself early
Do a serious amount of preparation; in fact, prepare
so much that you can actually see your presentation
in your mind's eye so that you don't need to look for
words or ideas during the speech.
2 Practice your speech
Begin your practice of the speech as soon as you
can, and do it with imagining seeing your audience.
What you want to do is to reduce the speech or
presentation to a routine, as far as possible, before
the event.
Confidence
- Fake it till you make it. Appear confident to your
audience.
- Make your affirmation, for example, “People listen
to me when I talk, because I have something
important to say”. Or, “I am among friends, I am
enjoying this, so yes, let's go!”
- Be deliberate, but not pompous. If you need to
walk to the stage or rostrum, don't rush. Walk
confidently, hold your head up high, the audience will
wait for you.
- Remember to use deep breathing. As you're
walking towards the rostrum or as you rise to speak,
breathe deeply and steadily to calm your nerves.
- Slowly, and deliberately, look at the audience,
maintain your steady deep breathing.
- Memorise your opening paragraph (and your
closing paragraph). Practicing this will help you get
into your character, and ready to begin the speech
or presentation.
- Don't panic. If you do forget what you're going to
say, and your mind goes blank, pause. If necessary,
go over the words that you've just said or even
summarise the part of the speech that you've
already delivered, and proceed confidently.
Using your voice
There is a whole lot to do with voice, but in brief,
pay attention to the following points:
- Project your voice so that the people in the last
row can hear you.
- Speak low, avoid high pitch voices.
- Phrasing – do not break up phrases, for
example
Incorrect: Vermicelli flour is / made from / rice
and/ rice comes from/ padi fields.
Correct: Vermicelli flour is made from rice/ and
rice/ comes from padi fields.
- Volume – speak up with sufficient volume to fill
the room.
- Pitch – Avoid a tense and irritating high pitch.
Use your middle ranges as a base from which to
move upwards or downwards.
- Pace – Variations in pace will assist you in using
your voice to the best advantage and avoid being
monotonous.
- Speak clearly – clear articulation is essential,
don't be lazy in your speech. Use your tongue, move
your mouth, pronounce your consonants and verbs
sharply, produce them deliberately, and don't swallow
or allow your words to fade away.
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Please write to me with any feedback you have, or
tell me what you want to see in my e-newsletter. I'd
love to hear from you. Write to me at
shirley@shirleytaylor.com.
Happy National Day to all Singaporeans this month.
Have a great August, and I'll see you in August!!!
Shirley
PPS: You may reprint this newsletter or forward it to
your customers and colleagues. However please
keep this copyright and contact information
intact:
Copyright Shirley Taylor 2005. Shirley Taylor
is author of several popular books on effective
communication and business writing. She lives in
Singapore and works as an international trainer,
seminar leader, professional writer and conference
speaker.
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A Tribute to my Dear Mum |
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Many apologies to all my readers for an extended
absence from your mailbox. Unfortunately there was
no June or July Shirley Says. I have had to
make several trips back to the UK recently due to my
Mum's ill health, so my newsletter had to take
a back seat.
I'm sorry to say that my dear Mum passed away on
22 July, aged 79. She has suffered a great deal of
discomfort, pain and torment in recent years,
and it is a blessing now to know that she is
free from pain and finally at peace.
My Mum will be in my thoughts and in my heart
always. God bless her.
I'd like to say a huge thank you to all my friends
around the world for their love and support at this
very sad time.
SHIRLEY'S 2005 SCHEDULE OF
PUBLIC WORKSHOPS
I have several public workshops coming up over the
next few months. To download the pdf flier,
please click on the links. For further details please
call Sam Loo from Learner's Choice on
63762018.
Power Up Your Business Writing
Skills
24-25 August
13-14 September
19-20 October
6-7 December
Success Skills for Secretaries &
Support Staff
6 September
9 November
Energise your E-mail Writing
Skills
21 September
16 November
COMMENTS ON THE 4TH EDITION OF
COMMUNICATION FOR BUSINESS
Here is what some people are saying about the 4th
edition of Communication for Business:
"Shirley's clear writing style and examples of business
documents have made this book popular for almost
15 years. Once again, Shirley has used material that
is topical and timeless, with eye-catching graphics
and up-to-date realistic assignments. Her fourth
edition is sure to be another winner."
Marion Goldacre, Programme Leader, Office
Administration, Lincoln College, UK
"I teach Business English and Communication Skills,
and recommend your books to many of my students.
I also follow up and make sure they have
bought them! Your clear, practical approach and the
straightforward language you use is ideal for my non-
native learners, and the guidance you give in
structure, style and tone of business documents is
excellent."
Martin Jack, Aarhus Business College, Denmark
"Shirley's approach to modern business
communication is clear and simple, which serves well
to reinforce the message. She not only makes her
books user-friendly, but also fun and memorable, just
like her workshops. I highly recommend this book to
anyone who feels their business writing is not as
powerful as it could be."
Angela Keane, Communications and Media Trainer,
Beijing
Check out some more testimonials for the 4th
edition.
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