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Dear Reader,
I'm in India as I send out this newsletter, and am
certainly enjoying a new cultural experience. I'm
sorry that I'll be leaving before next week's
celebraton of Diwali, or Deepavali - the Festival of
Lights. This festival is celebrated by young and old,
rich and poor, to dispel darkness and light up their
lives. People will be lighting earthen 'diyas' (lamps),
decorating the houses, bursting firecrackers and
inviting near and dear ones to their households to
enjoy a sumptuous feast. The lighting of lamps is a
way of paying respect to god for attainment of
health, wealth, knowledge, peace, valor and fame.
So I'll bring you more next month on my trip to India.
Meanwhile, take care, enjoy November, and I'll be
back in your mailbox again next month!
Shirley
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Communication is the heart of every organisation.
Everything you do in the workplace results from
communication. Therefore good reading, writing,
speaking and listening skills are essential if tasks are
going to be completed and goals achieved.
As you develop your career you will find various
reasons why successful communication skills are
important to you, for example:
- To secure an interview. You will need good
communication skills to make sure your application
letter is read and acted upon.
- To secure an interview. You will need good
communication skills to make sure your application
letter is read and acted upon.
- To do your job well. You will need to request
information, discuss problems, give instructions, work
in teams, interact with colleagues and clients. If you
are to achieve co-operation and effective teamwork,
good human relations skills are essential. Also, as
the workplace is also becoming more global, there are
many factors to consider if you are to communicate
well in such a diverse environment.
- To advance in your career. Employers want staff
who can think for themselves, use initiative and solve
problems, staff who are interested in the long-term
success of the company. If you are to be seen as a
valued member of the organisation, it is important
not just to be able to do your job well, but also to
communicate your thoughts on how the processes
and products or services can be improved.
Benefits of effective communication
The most successful organisations understand that if
they are to be successful in today's business world,
good communication at all levels is essential. Here is
a useful nmemonic to remember the benefits you and
your organisation can achieve from effective
communication:
Stronger
decision-making and problem-solving
Upturn in
productivity
Convincing and
compelling corporate
materials
Clearer, more
streamlined workflow
Enhanced professional
image
Sound business
relationships
Successful response
ensured
REMEMBER:
Today's workplace is constantly changing, so learning
more about effective communication helps us all
adapt to our changing environments.
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| A-Z of Bloopers, Blunders, Common errors and Clichés |
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In last month's newsletter I continued lookiing at my
A-Z of Bloopers, Blunders, Common Errors and
Clichés. Here I'd like to present the C's.
Clarification
I often see sentences like "Please contact me if you
require any further clarifications." The word should
be 'clarification'. Like the word 'information', it
becomes countable when you are talking about
specific pieces of clarification you need. In most
cases you will mean the act of clarifying something,
so use the word as an uncountable noun -
clarification.
NB: It would be much better to say, "Please give
me a call at xxx if you have any questions."
Clichés
Clichés (or platitudes) are things that have lost their
sparkle, and often their meaning, through overuse.
Examples of writing clichés are those old-fashioned
terms like above-mentioned, enclosed herewith,
please be advised, I am writing to inform you.... and
there are many more!!!
Clothing
Another uncountable noun, this word does not need
an 's' on the end. Even though you can count the
number of pieces of clothing, you should still use the
word clothing without the s.
Compare to/compare with
When comparing things that are dissimilar, use
compare to. When comparing things that are
similar, use compare with. Examples:
My life has been compared to a soap opera.
US Congress may be compared with the British
Parliament.
Comprise
We should not use the word of to follow
comprise or comprises. The word
literally means 'to consist of', so when using
comprise we don't need the word of,
otherwise we would be saying 'to consist of
of'.
Contact on or Contact at
Both of these expressions are correct. Contact
me on xxxxx is British English and Contact me
at xxxx is American English.
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| Active Listening |
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I'm very pleased to include an article on Active
Listening this month from my good friend and
fellow-trainer, Ricky
Lien.
Active listening is the art of non-defensive and
empathic listening. Almost all difficult situations can
be avoided if you practice the art of active listening,
listen to understand, not to agree or to disagree.
Stephen Covey wrote about this in one of his
principals from the 7 Habits of Highly Effective
People, "Seek first to understand, then to be
understood".
What stops us from listening?
Our interaction with others would be so much better
if we could just understand that there are many
barriers created in our minds from listening to others.
Well, first of all, psychologists say that we have
between 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts daily!
This means that we're so busy with our own
thoughts, that we won't have the time to listen to
others! Well, not unless we stop listening to
ourselves and start to listen attentively to the other
person will we ever get to understand what the other
person is saying.
Now the other thing that also stops us from listening
to others are our perceptual barriers, things like
education, prejudice, past experiences, judgemental,
different opinions, different interests, past decisions,
and just being plain old dogmatic.
Then of course, there's the other thing that we do
quite unconsciously, which is called, 'already always
listening!' And that's to ourselves, not to the other
person.
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| Last but not least |
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I hope you've enjoyed this issue of Shirley
Says. If you have any ideas about what you
would like me to include in future issues,
please write to me at
news@shirleytaylor.com.
PS: In a recent issue of the Plain Engish newsletter,
I read about an intriguing sign in a UK supermarket.
It read, "If you wish to change your baby, please see
the lady at the salad bar."
BOOM BOOM!! ;-)
PS: You may reprint this newsletter or forward it to
your customers and colleagues. However please
keep this copyright and contact information
intact:
Copyright Shirley Taylor 2004. Shirley Taylor
is author of several popular books on effective
communication and business writing. She lives in
Singapore and works as an international trainer,
seminar leader, professional writer and conference
speaker.
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