{"id":1802,"date":"2013-01-03T10:21:36","date_gmt":"2013-01-03T02:21:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shirleytaylor.com\/blog\/?p=1802"},"modified":"2013-01-11T09:01:26","modified_gmt":"2013-01-11T01:01:26","slug":"developing-likeability","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shirleytaylor.com\/blog\/developing-likeability\/","title":{"rendered":"Developing Likeability"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>\n <o:OfficeDocumentSettings>\n  <o:AllowPNG\/>\n <\/o:OfficeDocumentSettings>\n<\/xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>\n <w:WordDocument>\n  <w:View>Normal<\/w:View>\n  <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom>\n  <w:TrackMoves\/>\n  <w:TrackFormatting\/>\n  <w:PunctuationKerning\/>\n  <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas\/>\n  <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false<\/w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>\n  <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false<\/w:IgnoreMixedContent>\n  <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false<\/w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>\n  <w:DoNotPromoteQF\/>\n  <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US<\/w:LidThemeOther>\n  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