{"id":1578,"date":"2012-09-06T11:38:34","date_gmt":"2012-09-06T03:38:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shirleytaylor.com\/blog\/?p=1578"},"modified":"2013-01-11T09:08:11","modified_gmt":"2013-01-11T01:08:11","slug":"saying-no-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shirleytaylor.com\/blog\/saying-no-at-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Saying No At Work"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>\n <o:OfficeDocumentSettings>\n  <o:AllowPNG\/>\n <\/o:OfficeDocumentSettings>\n<\/xml><![endif]--><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>\n <w:WordDocument>\n  <w:View>Normal<\/w:View>\n  <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom>\n  <w:TrackMoves\/>\n  <w:TrackFormatting\/>\n  <w:PunctuationKerning\/>\n  <w:ValidateAgainstSchemas\/>\n  <w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>false<\/w:SaveIfXMLInvalid>\n  <w:IgnoreMixedContent>false<\/w:IgnoreMixedContent>\n  <w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>false<\/w:AlwaysShowPlaceholderText>\n  <w:DoNotPromoteQF\/>\n  <w:LidThemeOther>EN-US<\/w:LidThemeOther>\n  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Do you go home stressed, knowing that what you haven&rsquo;t done today will have to be done tomorrow? Have you ever felt frustrated when your boss approaches you with yet another task on top of an already busy workload?<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-left: 160px; \">Even though you feel over worked, something inside you just can&rsquo;t say no. In this competitive job market, you value your job. You want to come off as agreeable, competent, hard working and capable.<\/p>\n<p>But what if you can only do the task with half the attention it requires?&nbsp;What if it&rsquo;s finished quickly but with mistakes? What if you are too busy to get it finished on time, or at all?<\/p>\n<p><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p>When you take on more than you can handle, you are endangering your reputation!<\/p>\n<p><o:p><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p>You need to learn to say no. If you feel like you are at capacity, taking on yet another task is not only hurting you, but also your boss and the company you work for. 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